How To Discuss An In-Law Issue With Your Partner

When your partner consistently sides with their parents over you, it can create tension in your relationship. While it's natural for individuals to prioritize their family of origin, finding common ground and identifying when you need to prioritize your partner is really important.

Unfortunately, you cannot force your partner to care about your feelings, see your perspective, or prioritize your needs. You can attempt to use these steps when you find yourself consistently being dismissed by your partner while they prioritize their family of origin and evaluate how effective they are for your unique situation.

This worksheet will help you navigate each step of the process when you need to discuss an in-law issue with your partner.